A fascinating read Tim that resonates with me. In lost £50k in savings after a divorce and ended up borrowing money from my parents to keep me afloat as a single Dad with two kids. Ten years later, I’m still not back where I was but I’m moving into my new house on Friday and I’ve re-set my mind like you describe. I feel better and more optimistic for it too. Keep up the great work. Oh, and I love the ebook, it’s what got me started writing on Medium.